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Before one can experience "True Love," they must first achieve internal harmony. This involves "Hypsoconsciousness" or heightened awareness to overcome the animalistic impulses of the ego. 1.5.3 , 1.5.11
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Baines suggests these patterns fall into three broad categories: being (living in an unhealthy ego), Unbalanced (having unintegrated masculine/feminine energies), and Programmed (acting out social conditioning). Before one can experience "True Love," they must
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: Baines argues that most modern romance is "corrupt," based on ego, possessiveness, or biological "animal" instincts. He advocates for "True Love," which requires spiritual maturity and the "awakening" of one's consciousness.
: Recognizing one's own emotional triggers and flaws.
Baines explains that human interactions are exchanges of subtle energies. Disagreements, infatuation, and jealousy are viewed as energetic imbalances or "vampirism" between partners.